Cinemorphosis

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  • Identifying and Coping with Neighborplexity

    Identifying and Coping with Neighborplexity

    My dear, respectable neighbors, the Pattersons have forced me to contend with Neighborplexity. Let me explain. For years, I lived in blissful harmony with these upstanding citizens—the kind of people who proudly displayed their New Yorker subscriptions and NPR tote bags like badges of intellectual honor. We had an unspoken pact, a mutual understanding that we were members of the Smart People’s Society, where the TV was reserved for documentaries, award-winning dramas, and the occasional indie film that required subtitles and a dictionary to understand.

    But then, one evening, as I casually glanced out my window—just a harmless peek, really—I saw something so grotesque, so utterly incomprehensible, that it shook me to my core. There, through the open window of my once-revered neighbors, I saw them glued to the screen—not just any screen, but one streaming a TV show so mind-numbingly lowbrow it made reality itself seem like a parody. My brain went into full-blown meltdown. Could it be? Were they actually watching Love Island?

    I blinked, hoping I’d misinterpreted the scene, but no—the horror was all too real. My neighbors, those paragons of taste and intellect, were indulging in what could only be described as televised garbage. I was struck down by a case of Neighborplexity: that gut-wrenching, mind-twisting moment when you realize you might not know the people next door at all. Suddenly, my world was flipped upside down. Had they always been this way? Were those book club meetings just a ruse, a clever cover-up for their secret love affair with trash TV? I felt like I’d just discovered that the Michelin-starred chef who lived down the block actually preferred dining on Spam straight out of the can.

    I thought we were united in our disdain for anything that wasn’t at least 95% fresh on Rotten Tomatoes. But now? Now, I wasn’t so sure. How could they betray me like this? Was every dinner party, every casual chat about the latest literary masterpiece, just a well-orchestrated charade? My mind spun as I tried to reconcile the image of these seemingly cultured, well-spoken people with the reality of them willingly watching—gasp—that show.

    What do I do now? How do I move forward? Can I ever look them in the eye again, or will I be forever haunted by this dark revelation, this unraveling of the fabric of my once-idyllic neighborhood? All because of one dreadful, unforgivable act of poor taste on TV. Love Island, of all things. The horror! The betrayal! The absolute audacity! 

    To get through this ordeal, I must have a clear definition of Neighborplexity and study the coping mechanisms to help me deal with this. So here we go.

    Neighborplexity (n.): The psychological whiplash that occurs when your carefully curated perception of your neighbors—those tote-bag-wielding, podcast-quoting, fair-trade-coffee-brewing intellectuals—is shattered by the revelation that they voluntarily watch garbage television. One moment you’re nodding in mutual disdain over a New Yorker cartoon; the next, you’re watching them binge Love Island with the hungry intensity of someone decoding the Dead Sea Scrolls. Neighborplexity induces spiritual vertigo, trust erosion, and the overwhelming sense that the social fabric of your ZIP code has been irreparably torn by sequins, fake tans, and manufactured drama. It is, in essence, a full-blown existential crisis brought on by a neighbor’s taste in television.

    7 Coping Mechanisms for Surviving Neighborplexity:

    1. Curated Amnesia – Tell yourself you didn’t see it. What open window? What TV screen? As far as you’re concerned, they were watching a Ken Burns documentary about soil.
    2. Projection Therapy – Assume it was ironic. They’re studying Love Island for a sociological thesis titled The Semiotics of Spray Tan.
    3. NPR Overdose – Immediately listen to four consecutive episodes of Fresh Air to flush out any lingering trash-TV toxins.
    4. Visual Recalibration – Replace your neighbor’s face with Tilda Swinton’s. At all times. It helps.
    5. Sarcastic Enlightenment – Convince yourself this is actually a deeper form of taste. Maybe Love Island is postmodern performance art and you’re the unsophisticated one.
    6. Emergency Sumatra Deployment – Brew the darkest, most self-righteous coffee you can find and sip it slowly while rereading Proust. This reminds you who you really are.
    7. Petty Book Club Coup – At the next meeting, accidentally bring up Love Island as a joke and watch their faces. Gauge their guilt. Proceed accordingly with social sanctions or passive-aggressive charcuterie.
  • WATCHING PRESTIGE TV IN THE PRE-ALGORITHM DAYS

    WATCHING PRESTIGE TV IN THE PRE-ALGORITHM DAYS

    Between 2002 and 2010, my wife and I lived in the golden age of unfiltered, algorithm-free television consumption—a fleeting, pre-social media era when discovery felt organic, unmanipulated by streaming services shoving their “curated” picks down our throats. We had no children yet, which meant our evenings weren’t dictated by bedtime battles or the soul-crushing exhaustion of parenting twins. Instead, we devoured TV with the kind of single-minded intensity usually reserved for law students cramming for the bar. This was our time, our indulgence, our untamed expedition into the wilderness of prestige television.

    The years between 2002 and 2010 had a peculiar aftertaste, like the lingering fizz of a decade that refused to fully dissolve. The glow of ’90s perpetual adolescence still clung to the air, a warm haze of dial-up nostalgia and post-ironic optimism. Blogs, those digital soapboxes for the unpublished and the deluded, sprouted like toadstools after a storm, each one feeding the fantasy that we were just one viral post away from literary immortality.

    Social media existed, but it had yet to metastasize into the roiling cesspool of disinformation and rage farming it would become. Back then, the Internet still wore the mask of a utopian dream—an egalitarian promised land where access to knowledge would liberate us all. The idea that democracy could be strengthened through connectivity wasn’t yet the punchline to a cruel joke.

    And then there was television, freshly anointed with the label of “prestige,” its best offerings treated like high art. To binge a drama wasn’t an act of sloth but a cultural event, akin to devouring a novel in a single fevered sitting. It was the golden age of TV, before algorithms herded us like cattle into the content farms of endless, joyless streaming. We watched with reverence, believing that television had finally transcended its popcorn past and entered the realm of literature. Little did we know, the binge model we worshipped would soon turn us all into passive, glassy-eyed gluttons, gorging on content as if it might fill the growing void.

    Back then, finding a new show felt like a voyage of discovery, an expedition guided not by an algorithm but by word-of-mouth and gut instinct. Watching TV was like perusing a farmer’s market, sampling the produce ourselves, choosing what looked freshest, most intriguing, most promising—rather than having some all-knowing digital overlord shove a preselected “Because You Watched” playlist in our faces. My wife and I felt like Magellan charting unknown waters, sailing into TV’s vast, uncharted depths, unsure if we would encounter sea monsters, mermaids, or islands teeming with enchantment. It was thrilling. It was dangerous. And most importantly, it was ours.

    Of all the shows we binged, three stood out as cultural gold mines we felt like we alone had unearthed: Six Feet Under, The Wire, and Lost. Each had its own gravitational pull. Six Feet Under wasn’t just about a dysfunctional funeral home—it was about risks of individual freedom in a family that disregarded societal conventions. The Wire was a sprawling, devastating essay on the fight for dignity in a rigged system. And Lost? It was Gilligan’s Island meets Sartrean nihilism, a fever dream of redemption and existential dread where the only certainty was uncertainty itself.

    Then came 2010—and with it, the seismic shift of having twins. Overnight, TV ceased to be a grand expedition and became a survival mechanism, a warm bath to sink into after the daily combat of child-rearing. Gone was the immersive, existential drama-watching experience. Now, TV became a battlefield medic, stitching us back together, offering temporary relief before the next round of exhaustion. We weren’t discovering new worlds anymore. We were licking our wounds, bracing for tomorrow.