Luxury Is Relative: Tales from the Desert of Almost

Fresh off the bus from the bustling Bay Area, I found myself marooned in Bakersfield, a sun-bleached corner of California that could only generously be described as a town. With zero friends and even fewer social obligations, I embraced my solitude like a monk embracing a vow of silence. My one-bedroom apartment became my sanctuary—no roommates, no forced small talk, just me and the sweet luxury of never having to negotiate over chores or TV channels.

My companions? A stack of CDs featuring Morrissey, The Smiths, and other bands that sounded like a group therapy session set to a minor key. I was working on a novel Herculodge, my dystopian magnum opus in which society punishes the overweight with Orwellian fervor for failing to meet state-mandated body standards.

When I wasn’t writing, I’d plink away on my Yamaha ebony upright, conjuring up self-indulgent sonatas that only the most pretentious of muses could appreciate. I didn’t read music so much as let it ooze out of me—luscious chords here, shameless glissandos there—while imagining some ethereal goddess materializing in my living room to stroke my ego as I struck a soulful pose.

Compared to the misery of my college days in the Bay Area, my Bakersfield digs were practically a five-star resort. Back then, I wasn’t so much living as squatting in a hovel that had the audacity to pretend it was a room. The place featured a gaping hole in the wall strategically located at bed level, inviting in gusts of cold air so fierce they felt like the Bay’s fog had developed a personal vendetta against me. Sleeping wasn’t just uncomfortable; it was a survival sport. I’d huddle under layers like I was gearing up for an Everest expedition—jacket, hat, and sometimes gloves if the wind got particularly sassy.

My diet was a tragicomedy in three acts: breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Cheerios were the headliner, while bean-and-cheese burritos played the understudy whenever I was feeling particularly adventurous. These “burritos” were nothing more than refried sludge wrapped in a tortilla that had all the elasticity of cardboard. The cheese? It was the kind that refused to melt out of sheer spite, clinging to the tortilla like it was serving a life sentence. Each bite was a bleak reminder that I wasn’t starving, but I wasn’t thriving either.

Transportation was another chapter in my tale of woe. My chariot was a ten-year-old Toyota Tercel that was less a car and more a mobile disaster waiting to happen. It rattled like a haunted maraca, and driving it felt like piloting a coffin with wheels. The brakes let out a tortured groan every time I approached a stop sign, as if they were begging me to put the poor thing out of its misery. On the infamous Bay Area hills, I clung to the steering wheel with a white-knuckled grip, praying the Tercel wouldn’t decide to pack it in and roll backward into oblivion, taking out a few unsuspecting cyclists along the way. Fixing it was a twisted game of financial Russian roulette: repair the brakes or eat for a week—one of us had to suffer.

Money was as scarce as warmth in that drafty hole I called a room. Every broken item (and there were many) required a DIY fix involving duct tape, a prayer, and whatever scraps I could scavenge. Even gathering enough change for a trip to the laundromat felt like winning the lottery. “Luxury” back then meant adding an extra spoonful of salsa to my sad burritos—living on the edge by upping the spice in a meal that was otherwise flavorless and depressing.

Looking back, it’s a miracle I escaped that purgatory with my sanity—or whatever passed for sanity. That cold, drafty hole taught me resilience, but more than anything, it taught me how to laugh at the sheer absurdity of trying to survive in a city that demands gold while you’re barely scraping together tin.

So here I was, newly settled in this desert hideaway, craving a hint of the luxury I’d been denied. On weekends, I tanned my lean, 195-pound frame by The Springs’ apartment pool—a so-called “luxury” pool that only deserved the title because the sign said so. No real friendships blossomed at that pool—friendships are messy and overrated—but I did collect some “acquaintances,” a bizarre cast of characters who could only exist in this sun-scorched limbo.

I wasn’t thriving, but at least I wasn’t freezing or eating cardboard masquerading as food. And in a place like Bakersfield, that was about as close to paradise as you could hope for.